Meet Jesse's Other Mom

Evelyn has, of late, taken a serious interest in assisting us in the parenting--and especially disciplining--of her brother.

Her recent parenting repertoire includes some of the following sayings:

• "No, Jesse, it's just too late." --said in response to any number of requests Jess makes (of us), such as a request to read book, have a snack, etc.
  

• "Thumb out of mouth, Jesse."--often said even as she sucks her own favored fingers.

• "Like this, Jesse."--said as she demonstrates how he should follow our instructions to sit calmly in his chair (for a time out) instructions she herself *never* follows when it's her turn to have a sit.
  

• "Sorry, Jesse, no video for you, you no keep it dry"--no need for explanation...

• "Sorry, Jesse, it's all gone."--said very politely as she swiftly stuffs in her mouth the last of some candy he was wanting her to share.

In addition to these sorts of remarks, she's also taken to simply echoing any instructions or questions I have for Jess. And just the other night, Brent came into their room (to remind them to be quite and go to sleep) to find them in the middle of a conversation which involved Evelyn questioning Jess about his potty status for the day. When Brent came in she asked, "Jess kept it dry?--or no?"

Although we're trying to make clear to Evelyn that we'll handle the parenting, I have a feeling she's always going to be inclined to see herself as her brother's keeper.